tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27254015.post5787400004484849467..comments2024-03-09T10:15:11.266+13:00Comments on Unravelling: Censored, Controlled, and Still Inappropriate BlatherMeghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01350447919000146804noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27254015.post-86843747087818232112016-02-08T14:06:42.461+13:002016-02-08T14:06:42.461+13:00"Choosing not to act on it", or knowing ..."Choosing not to act on it", or knowing when (not) to is my problem, Alison. It's not that I see the line and cross it deliberately, but I don't see it. Sometimes I don't even see it until I've crossed and walked a few miles, turn around, and see a sea of stunned faces. Or worse, a departing friend's back. Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01350447919000146804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27254015.post-43888157380911801472016-02-08T14:03:44.058+13:002016-02-08T14:03:44.058+13:00It's that "being civil" part that I ...It's that "being civil" part that I haven't got right, Taueret. Sometimes I don't see the line until I cross it. Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01350447919000146804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27254015.post-79010639969620512942016-02-08T08:14:44.473+13:002016-02-08T08:14:44.473+13:00Meg I have learnt that if you come from a place of...Meg I have learnt that if you come from a place of love to express your honne then you are able to maintain your authentic self. If you are not able to express your inner truth lovingly then just recognising and acknowledging it is there but choosing not to act on it is also authentic as you are deciding to choosing a loving path which is sometimes the better option. I hope that makes sense. And don't worry we all stuff up sometimes. XxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08455936100283834760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27254015.post-6120775363963171422016-02-07T22:41:16.956+13:002016-02-07T22:41:16.956+13:00I certainly feel less/no urge to convince anyone t...I certainly feel less/no urge to convince anyone that I'm right about nearly anything these days. On the other hand I know when I'm right, regardless of what anyone else thinks. So that helps with being civil - but other than being civil I am what I am these days, like it or not!tauerethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17655302205909205171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27254015.post-11438335369769976952016-02-07T13:32:25.503+13:002016-02-07T13:32:25.503+13:00I swear, Laura, Dad and I were born value-blind. D...I swear, Laura, Dad and I were born value-blind. Dad, in Japan, still did fairly OK because he was a man, a professor and a vice chancellor, in Japan, in his time. So doesn't work like that for moi. Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01350447919000146804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27254015.post-44833665125250123532016-02-07T12:36:40.169+13:002016-02-07T12:36:40.169+13:00Yes, I see endless shades of grey. Be so much eas...Yes, I see endless shades of grey. Be so much easier if there was only black or white...Laura Fryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06599868570350256631noreply@blogger.com